I love loving people. I love to see the expression on the face of a person that just realized they can make a change in their lives. In the past this has been a challenging aspect for me regarding this idea of motivating people. YES!!! I can inspire people, BUT,.... We as individuals are the only ones that can actually motivate ourselves.
Utilizing acceptance as a tool, has enabled this reality to become one of the most rewarding realizations.
I have no control over anyone else. It is so liberating. This realization frees up my entire future to focus on the ONLY person I have any control over and that is ME!
No matter how much I love someone else, I can not love them into making better choices for themselves. The best thing I can do is to live my life making the best choices I can make for myself and trust that anyone that is open to making better choices for themselves will be watching.
Perhaps they will be inspired to make a change, but they have to want it for it to happen. They have to want it and they have to decide what they are going to do and when and how.
Even if they say they want it and don't take action, that is their choice.
You have the same glorious power for yourself. When you want to make a change you have to decide for yourself and put a plan of action into place.
This blog is the result of my decision and my plan in action.
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