Here's a plan

Ok, so here's the deal. In a challenging situation when you feel stuck and you're trying to make a decision, you have got to decide what's the greater good.

The greater good most often is to make improvements that benefit everyone involved.

How do improvements come?

Changes have to be made. It is imperative to deal with whatever is the cause of the situation and not just the symptoms the situation is causing. It's is not just a matter of putting out fires, it's a matter of finding the fucker that has all the damned matches!!!

Determine what is causing the symptoms.

Ask yourself if you are willing to take matters into your own hands. Are you willing to take the risks necessary to resolve the situation? Are you comfortable making large improvements and taking credit for making decisions? Are you better today than you were yesterday? Are you happy? What's in it for you?

HOWEVER, you can not make improvements on your own in some situations, therefore, you have got to get a 100% by in by everyone involved. So, if you don't have a 100% buy in by all involved, what then?

Exit strategy!