I am not right and you are not wrong

I am not really sure how to start this, but I'm going to give it my best shot because I believe it's a point worthy of acknowledging or at least contemplating.

When something is not right in our reality and we have an awareness of this "not rightness" why do we let it linger? Why do we allow our "not rightness" to hang around and torture us emotionally?

It seems like if something doesn't feel right and you are aware of it, then why not attempt to process it and make it right?

I guess what it boils down to is every one has a different perspective and a different way of processing. Clarity from the outside is so much easier than when you are actually dealing with the personal emotions of the "not rightness".

I have some "not rightness" in my awareness. I really want it to be right, but its hard and scary sometimes. I guess the whole point of this was to help me realize that just because it is so easy and clear for ME to see what changes YOU could make to right your "not rightness" doesn't mean its right for you, because I don't have your emotional connection to your "not rightness". So, I have my perspective and you have yours. That does not make me right and you wrong.

I am just going to give what I would like to receive and that is understanding that I am doing the best I can with the tools, skills and awareness that I currently have and I give a damn about myself enough to keep searching and trying to improve myself.

The only confirmation that I need is the knowing I have in my heart that I am growing and changing.